Books
- Adams, Mark (1996). The Preacher's Son. Hollywood, CA: Window Books. ISBN: 1-889829-00-5
- Adams, Mark (1998). Still Water. Hollywood, CA: Window Books. ISBN; 1-889829-02-1
- Andrews, Nancy (1994). Family: A Portrait of Gay and Lesbian America. San Francisco, CA: Harper San Francisco. ISBN: 0-06-250011-2
- Berzon, Betty, Ph.D. (ed.) (1992). Positively Gay: New Approaches to Gay and Lesbian Life Berkeley, CA: Celestial Arts. ISBN: 0-89087-676-2.
- Boenke, Mary (ed.) (1999). Trans Forming Families: Real Stories About Transgendered Loved Ones. Imperial Beach, CA: Walter Trook Pub. ISBN: 0-9663272-1-7. [2 copies]
- Bohjalian, Chris (2000). Trans-Sister Radio. New York: Vintage Books. ISBN: 0-375-70517-1.
- Bono, Chastity (1998). Family Outing. Boston: Little, Brown and Company. ISBN: 0-316-10233-4.
- Borhek, Mary V. (1983). Coming Out to Parents. New York: The Pilgrim Press. ISBN: 0-8298-0665-2.
- Brown, Lester B., PhD (ed.). (1997). American Indian Lesbian Women and Gay Men. New York: Harrington Park Press. ISBN: 0-7890-0003-2.
- Butler, Judith. (1990) Gender Trouble: Feminism and the Subversion of Identity. New York: Routledge. ISBN: 0-415-90042-5.
- Cantwell, Mary Ann (1996). Homosexuality: The Secret a Child Dare Not Tell. San Rafael. CA: Rafael Press. ISBN: 0-9649829-9-4.
- Casper, Virginia and Schultz, Steven B. (1999). Gay Parents Straight Schools - Building Communication and Trust. New York: Teachers College Press. ISBN: 0-8077-3824-7 [2 copies]
- Castiglione, Jack (1992). The Straight Person's Guide to Gay People's Anguish. Long Beach, CA: copies available through author. ISBN 1-88041 6-2 8-X.
- Clark, Don, PhD (1987), Loving Someone Gay. Berkeley, CA: CelestialArts. ISBN: 0-89087-505-7
- Clark, Don, PhD (1987?). The New Loving Someone Gay - Revised and Updated. Berkely, CA: CelestialArts. ISBN: 0-89087-505-7.
- Cohen, Susan and Daniel (1989). When Someone You Know is Gay. New York: M. Evans & Co. ISBN: 0-871 31 -567-X.
- Coleman, Brent, MA, LPC (2001). Wounded in the Name of God: A Journey from Religious Wounding Toward Personal Discovery. Denver, CO: Metonia Press. ISBN: 0-9716018-0-1.
- Corley, Rip, CSW, ACP (1990). The Final Closet: The Gay Parents' Guide for Coming Out To Their Children. Miami, Fla.: Editech Press. ISBN: 0-945586-08-6. [3 copies].
- Creekmus, Corey K. and Doty, Alexander (eds.). (1995). Out in Culture: Gay, Lesbian and Queer Essays on Popular Culture. Durham and London. Duke University Press. ISBN: 0-8223-1532-7.
- Curb, Rosemary and Monahan, Nancy (eds.) (1985). Lesbian Nuns: Breaking Silence. Tallahassee, FL Naiad Press Inc. ISBN: 0-930044-62-2. [2 copies].
- D'Angelo, Anthony J, Collingsworth, Jr., Stephen D. et al. (2002). Inspiration for LGBT Students And Their Allies. Easton, PA: Collegiate-Empowerment Co. Inc. ISBN: 0-96469 57-4-X.
- DeGeneres, Betty (2000). Just a Mom. Los Angeles, CA: Alyson Pubs. ISBN: 1-55583-613-5.
- DeGeneres, Betty ( 1999). Love, Ellen: A Mother/Daughter Journey. New York: Wm. Morrow and Co., Inc. ISBN: 0-688-16274-6.
- Dew, Robb Forman (1994). The Family Heart: A Memoir of When Our Son Came Out. New York: Addison-Wesley Pub. Co. ISBN: 0-201-62450-8. [3 copies]
- Ekins, Richard and King, Dave (eds.) (1996). Blending Genders: Social Aspects of Cross-Dressing and Sex-Changing. London and New York: Routledge. ISBN: 0-415-1 1552-3. [2 copies]
- Faderman, Lillian. (1998). Surpassing the Love of Men: Romantic Friendship and Love Between Women from the Renaissance to the Present. New York: Wm. Morrow. ISBN: 0-688-13330-4.
- Fairchild, Betty and Hayward, Nancy. (1979). Now That You Know: What Every Parent Should Know About Homosexuality. New York: Harcourt Brace Jovanovich, Pubs. ISBN: 0-1 5-6667702-4. [2 copies]
- Feinbloom, Deborah Heller. (1976). Transvestites and Transsexuals: Mixed Views. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Delacorte Press/Seymour Lawrence. ISBN: 0-440-08513-6.
- Gantz, Joe (1983). Whose Child Cries: Children of Gay Parents Talk About Their Lives. Rolling Hills Estates, CA: Jalmar Press. ISBN: 0-915190-39-7.
- Garden, Nancy (1982). Annie on My Mind. Canada: Aerial Fiction, Farrar, Strauss & Giroux. IOQ ISBN: 0-374-40414-3
- Glaser, Chris (1988). Uncommon Calling: A Gay Christian's Struggle to Serve the Church. Louisville, KY: Westminister John Knox Press. ISBN: 0-664-25659-7.
- Goodman, Eric (2004). Child of My Right Hand. Napervill, IL: Sourcebooks Landmark. ISBN: 1-4022-0306-3. [3 copies]
- Grier, Carol (2002). Secrets: A Memoir. Baltimore, MD: Publish America Book Pubs. ISBN: 1-59129-313-8.
- Griffin, Carolyn Welch, Wirth, Marian J., and Wirth, Arthur G. (1986). Beyond Acceptance: Parents of Lesbians and Gays Talk About Their Experiences. New York: St. Martin's Press. ISBN: 0-31 2-04993-5
- Herrman, Bert. (1990). Being Happy Being Gay. San Francisco, CA: Alamo Square Press. ISBN: 0-9624751-0-6.
- Jorgensen, Christine (1967). Christine Jorgensen: Personal Autobiography. San Francisco, CA: Cleis Press. ISBN: 1-57344-100-7.
- Jullion, Jeanne (1985). Long Way Home: The Odyssey of a Lesbian Mother and Her Children. San Francisco, CA: Cleis Press. ISBN: 0-939416-05-0.
- V Katz, Jonathan Ned (1996). The Invention of Heterosexuality. New York: Penguin Books. ISBN: 0-452-27542-3.
- Kelly, Caffyn (ed.) (1992). Forbidden Subjects: Self-Portraits by Lesbian Artists. Vancouver, B.C., Canada: Gallerie Pubs. ISBN: 1-895640-01-6.
- Kingdon, Kirsten (2000). Summer At The End Of The World. Bloomington, IN: Banta&Pool. ISBN: 0-9667237-1-6.
- Leigh, Lacey (2001). Out & About: The Emancipated Crossdresser. USA: Double Star Press. ISBN: 0-9716680-0-0.
- LeRoy, J.T. (2000). Sarah. New York: Bloomsbury. ISBN: 1 -58234-1 46-X.
- Link, George J. (1996). Out, Thank God! [7 copies]
- Litersky, Dorothy M. Grobe (1997). Derleth Hawk. . .and Dave. Boynton Beach, FL: National Writers Press. ISBN: 0-88100-093-0.
- Marcus, Eric (1993). Is It a Choice? San Francisco, CA: Harper San Francisco. ISBN: 0-06-250664-1.
- Marcus, Eric (2002). Making Gay History. New York: Perennial. ISBN: 0-06-093391-7
- Martin, April, PhD ((1993). The Lesbian and Gay Parenting Handbook: Creating and Raising Our Families. New York: Perennial. ISBN: 0-06 096929 6.
- Matthiessen, Peter (1986). Men's Lives. New York: Vintage Books. ISBN: 0-394-75560-X.
- McClain, Jerry/Jerri (1992). To Be a Woman. Provincetown, MA: Different Path Press. ISBN: 0-9626262-1 -X.
- MdDougall, Bryce (ed.) (1998). My Child is Gay: How Parents React When They Hear The News. St. Leonards, Australia: Alien & Unwin. ISBN: 1-86448-658-9.
- MdDonald, Helen B. and Steinhorn, Audrey I. (1990). Understanding Homosexuality: A Guide For Those Who Know, Love, or Counsel Gay and Lesbian Individuals. New York: Crossroad. ISBN: 0-8245-1 2 1 5-4.
- McNaught, Brian (1988). On Being Gay: Thoughts on Family, Faith, and Love. New York: St. Martin's Press. ISBN: 0-312-12959-4.
- Minor, Robert N., PhD (2001). Scared Straight: Why It's So Hard to Accept Gay People And Why It's So Hard to be Human. St. Louis, MO: Humanity Works. ISBN: 0-9709581-0-2.
- Morris, Jan (1974). Conundrum. New York: Henry Holt & Co. ISBN:0-8050-0361-4.
- Muller, Ann (1987). Parents Matter: Parents' Relationships With Lesbian Daughters And Gay Sons. Tallahassee, FL: ISBN: 0-930044-91-6.
- Muller, Wayne (1992). Legacy of the Heart. New York: Simon & Schuster. ISBN: 0-671-76119-6.
- Nataf, Zachary (1996). Lesbians Talk Trans Gender. London: Scarlet Press. ;s ISBN: 1-85727-008-8.
- Plant, Richard (1986). The Pink Triangle: The Nazi War Against Homosexuals. New York: Henry Holt & Co. ISBN: 0-8050-06001.
- Rafkin, Louise (ed.) (1987). Different Daughters: A Book by Mothers of Lesbians. San Francisco, CA: Cleis Press. ISBN: 0-939416-13-1.
- Rafkin, Louise (ed.) (1990). Different Mothers: Sons and Daughters of Lesbians Talk About Their Lives. San Francisco, CA: Cleis Press. ISBN: 0-939416-41-7.
- Romero, Melissa Hart (2000). Long Way Home. Port Orchard, WA: Windstorm Creative Ltd. ISBN: 1-883573-15-7.
- Rothe, Barbara (2000). Rescue Ring: We Are All Touched. New York: Vantage Press. ISBN: 0-533-13183-9.
- Rudd, Peggy J., Ed.D. (1999). My Husband Wears My Clothes. Katy, TX: PM Publishers. ISBN: 0-9626762-5-X. Rudd, Peggy J., Ed.D. (1998). Who's Really From Venus? The Tale of Two Genders. Katy, TX: PM Publishers. ISBN: 0-962676-24-1.
- Saffron, Lisa (1996). What About the Children? Sons and Daughters of Lesbian and Gay Parents Talk About Their Lives. New York: Cassell. ISBN: 0-304-33522-3.
- Seay, Jody (1999). The Second Coming of Curly Red. New York: Firebrand Books. ISBN: 1-56341-114-8.
- Siegel, Laura and Olson, Nancy Lamkin (2001). Out Of The Closet Into Our Hearts. San Francisco, CA: Leyland Pubs. ISBN: 0-943595-84-3. [ 4 copies]
- Signorile, Michaelangelo (1995). Outing Yourself: How to Come Out as Lesbian or Gay To Your Family, Friends, and Coworkers. New York: Random House. 0-679-43838-6. Singer, Bennet L (ed.) (1994). Growing Up Gay/Growing Up Lesbian: A Literary Anthology. New York: The New Press. ISBN: 1-56584-103-4.
- Siporin, Alan (2002). Fire's Edge. Eugene, OR: Wounded Bear Press. ISBN: 0-9722806-0-X.
- Smith, Patricia Julianan (ed.) (1999). The Book of Gay & Lesbian Quotations. New York: Three Rivers Press. ISBN: 0-609-80262-3.
- Spahr, Jane Adams, Poethig, Kathryn, Berry, Selisse, and McLain, Melinda V. (1995). Called Out: The Voices & Gifts of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered Presbyterians. Gaithersburg, MD. Chi Rho Press.
- Spong, John Shelby (1990). Living in Sin: A Bishop Rethinks Human Sexuality. San Francisco, CA: Harper San Francisco. ISBN: 0-06-0667507-1.
- Stuart, Kim Elizabeth (1991). The Uninvited Dilemma: A Question of Gender. Portland, OR: Metamorphous Press. ISBN: 1-55552-013-8.
- Switzer, David K. and Switzer, Shirley (1980). Parents of the Homosexual. Philadelphia, PA: Westminster Press. ISBN: 0-664-24327-4.
- Vida, Ginny (ed.) (19778). Our Right To Love: A Lesbian Resource Book. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice-Hall, Inc. ISBN: 0-13-644401-6.
- Williams, Robert, Rev. (1992). Just As I Am: A Practical Guide to Being Out, Proud, and Christian. New York: Harper Perennial. ISBN: N-0-06-097555-5.
- Witt, Lynn (Ed) (1995). Out in All Directions: The Almanac of Gay and Lesbian America. New York: Warner Books. ISBN: 0-446-51822-0.
- Woog, Dan (1995). School's Out. Boston: Alyson Publications. ISBN: 1-55583-249-0.
Video Tapes (VCR)
- Making Love: Assault on Gay America (1987)
- Ballot Measure 9 (80 min) - (1994)
- Beat the Bash (TV Version, 30 min.; Theatrical Version - 60min.)
- Big Eden: A Small Miracle - (117 min) - a uniquely American fable about home and family. It hits upon the universal longing and hope we can each have for finding a place where we are loved, and the unconditional desire to see those that we love find happiness.
- Both of My Moms' Names Are Judy: Children of Lesbians and Gays Speak Out. This 10-minute video was produced as part of an in-service training for elementary school educators and administrators. It presents a diverse group of children (ages 7-11) who have lesbian and gay parents. In interviews, they talk about who's in their families, how it feels to be teased about their parents, how classroom silence about homosexuality affects them, and what they would like to see change. (1994)
- Brother Outsider: The Life of Bayard Rustin (85 min) - the definitive film biography of Bayard Rustin, one of the most controversial figures of the Civil Rights Movement.
- Camp Lavender Hill (28 min.) (1997) - a short documentary about the first summer camp for children of gay, lesbian and bisexual parents.
- Claiming America's Promise - (28:03) PFLAG Houston
- Coming Out, Coming Home: Asian and Pacific Islander Family Stories (44 min.)
- De Colores: Lesbian and Gay Latinos: Stories of Strength, Family and Love (28 min) (2001) - a bilingual documentary about how Latino families and communities are replacing the deep roots of homophobia with the even deeper roots of love and tolerance.
- Fight For Our Lives (19:15)
- Growing Up Gay and Lesbian: Questions and Answers
- Gay Lives and Culture Wars - (27:27) Brian McNaught - Guided Imagery - On Being Gay; Homophobia in the Workplace
- Hermaphrodites Speak!
- Another Side of The Closet - Three former spouses of gay men discuss the process they experienced when their husbands acknowledged their homosexuality. Their honest sharing provides insight and hope for love on the other side of the closet.
- Intersex M to F Changing Sexes
- Laramie Project
- Love in Action: PFLAG Retrospective (17:12) (1996)
- Mel White
- KVAL Story OCA and Gay Video Voices #11
- OCA Gay Pride Slander - Project 10
- On Being Gay: A Conversation With Brian McNaught (80min)
- Out in Suburbia - (28:37)
- Out Lesbian and Gay Youth
- Marc Adams - Talking About: The Preacher's Son - (30 min.)
- Positive Image (37 min) - See how parents are enriching their family values by learning about their Gay and Lesbian children.
- The Rhetoric of Intolerance - An open-Letter Video to Pat Robertson from Dr. Mel White (29:30)
- Straight From the Heart (23:54) Stories of parents' journeys to a new understanding of their lesbian and gay children
- That's a Family (30 min) - a documentary that breaks new ground in helping kids see and understand many of the different shapes that families take today.
- Total Patient Care - the child with an intersex condition
- The Truth About Jane (Lifetime) - (2000)
- When Democracy Works - examines the radical right wing in the U.S.(and) illustrates effective grassroots resistance to the Right's anti-democratic agenda.
- Who's Afraid of Project 10 Voices #2 - Bible and Homosexuality
- POV
- TV shows about Gays
- Oprah - Trans
- Oprah - May 12, 2004 - Transgendered Children
- What Sex Am I? Transexuals/Transvestites discuss lifestyles; HBO - Why am I Gay?
DVDs
- An Evening with Alan Steinman and Gretha Cammermeyer on Don't Ask, Don't Tell: A Policy of Discrimination
- Call Me Malcolm (2004)
- For the Bible Tells Me So (this copy is not for public presentations)
- Same-Sex Marriage: A Civil Debate - Feb. 24, 2004 (Gill Foundation)
